DH wont listen to me and Bm is being a Bitch! Bm now want's to step up and be a mom now that we have hit a breakthrough with SS12, after leaving 10 years ago! She is so jelous of the relationship Dh and I have with Ss12, now she wants him to try and fuck him up like she did when she took SS14 10 minths ago! THe problem is that I can usually read BM like a book and I know SS12 like the back of my hand,(I have been with him longer than BM)SS12 now says he wants tyo go live with BM because she is pestering him, and I say let him go.. BM has no patience and SS's fight non stop. She just got laid off, and so did her BF, Christmas is coming and she will have no money, and Dh and I are not giving her any ( she didn't pay CS for almost 3 years and took the Child tax Benifit for 2 years that she didn't have the kids) unless she has both of the boys for at least 1 year.
Dh wants to take her to court to get the boys back but I told him that won't help at all they may give her custody, she has a job, a house,and isn't a drug addict or an alcholic... she is just a selfish stupid lazy bitch. I say let the boys go and let them find out who their BM really is.... they won't like her!!! they will be back home at the end of the school year!! Who do you think is right? do you think he should fight this or do you think the boys should learn the hard way about who their BM really is!!?