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Me or his BD?

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Submitted by Veronica Mary on Sun, 09/09/2018 - 8:42am

Has anyone ever been in this situation & can offer advice or help???

My 11yo SD has basically told DH that she will no longer come to visit/stay at our house while I am there. She is asking him to choose btwn me & her. If we didn’t have a 4yo BD together I would pack up & leave - my SD brings pretty much nothing but chaos to our lives & DH will always defend her regardless. I just don’t need the drama but what about our BD? It’s unfair that she becomes the product of a broken relationship but this is unhealthy & unfair on her too. 

Feel like I just can't do this anymore......

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Submitted by Veronica Mary on Wed, 11/29/2017 - 3:59am

My partner & I have been together for 7yrs. He has an 11yo daughter & we have a 4yo daughter. He treats them both VERY differently & it frustrates the hell out of me & has left me feeling like I just can't do this anymore - I don't want to do this anymore. He denies treating them differently - he denies everything I say. Recently I brought several things to his attention that SD had done that imo were not acceptable.