I am a step mom of a 19 year old step son who still lives at home with no job and does not attend school. My husband, his father, pays for all of his things and has no intent on making him get a job. My step son will not eat the food we have in our home, he always wants his dad to stop and get him food or asks his dad to take him to get food. I have explained to my husband that he is creating a biggier problem. My husband feels it is ok for his son to still be living with us until he is 30 or 35 with no job.