WELL... WHERE DO I START, I LEFT MY X-HUSBAND FOR A MAN THAT I HAVE LOVED WITH EVERY INCH OF MY HEART. I HAVE NEVER EVER FELT THIS WAY FOR ANYONE SINCE IVE BEEN BORN. WELL NEEDLESS TO SAY HE HAS GROWN CHILDREN 3 SONS.(35,32,28) 2 OF THE 3 HAVE KIDS OF THEIR OWN. I HAVE FIVE CHILDREN MYSELF, 3 ADULTS (25.21,19) WITH KIDS OF THEIR OWN, AND 2 STILL AT HOME. (18 AND 11) THE PROBLEM IS SO DIFFERENT LIFE STYLES IN UP BRINGING. MY CHILDREN HAS BEEN TAUGHT TO BUDGET THEIR MONEY AND PROVIDE FOR THEMSELVES AND HIS KIDS DAILY HAVE THEIR HANDS OUT USING THEIR CHILDREN AS BEING HUNGRY.