I've been living with my BF for the last 7 years. He has a son (19) and a daughter (12) from a previous marriage. We have the kids very often. (I have no kids.) I've been with these kids for 8 years now (dated for a year before moving in together). Things are good for the most part but sometimes a situation arises that solidifies for me how different I would raise these kids if I were their mother. So I put the following questions out there for your consideration.........