The depths to which SD17's BM can go has no bounds.  Let me preface this by stating that DH and I have not seen SD17 in months - roughly October for me and early December for DH.  BM has classic narcassistic personality disorder and makes SD17 feel guilty any time she wants to come see us apparently.  SD17 continues to not go to school but can work part time.  BM has a doctor who has prescribed SD17 meds for undiagnosed ADHD, depression and anxiety AND SD17 is addicted to weed.  Even her doctor has told her that she can't be smoking it while on the meds she is on.