I was married for 23 years and we didn't have kids,which was ok.I got divorced and started dating this guy with 2 daughters ,at the time they were 11 and 14.They have 50/50 custody, at the time was every other week with him.When the older turned 16 she decided to not leave with him, after that my relationship went down hill.He became depressed and sad, we barely had any relationship .The younger daughter decided also not to be on the every other week schedule.Once again the got depressed.Has been a damn roller coaster my life .They barely talk to him, they don't call or text.His mom passed