im a 38yr old fm with 3 step children.No biological kids.I have lost 8 so far either due to ectopic or miscarriages.5yrs ago i met my hubby. a yr later his kids came for visitation for the summer and never left.Due to the mothers one reason or the other.We are now married and have custody of the boys and their mother comes and goes out of there life.We like everyone else had a time with the boys.From emotional to behavioral problems. These kids wanted to kill me when they first met me and explained in detail how they would accomplish this.