My husband and I were just married this past weekend in Hawaii. We took all three kids with us, because our both of our dreams were to always have a beach wedding, but we couldn't imagine having this moment without our kids present. It was a very trying trip for us traveling with 3 children, and not a vacation at all. In fact, I cried on the plane ride to Maui due to the behavior of our middle child, my stepson. This led to a fight between me and my (soon to be) husband two days into our trip of a lifetime. We talked, we dealt with it, and were married the next day.