More batshitness???
Skids are at BM tonight for visitation. SD calls my phone, and asks what our address is (she has not memorized it since we moved). She said she has a school project and a friend needs to come over.
My response to her was, since it is so complicated and her friend needs it to give her parents, and we have not talked to her parents, that dad will call school and talk to the teacher.
Then handed the phone to FDH.
THEN BM CALLS FDH PHONE.
She starts screaming at him that I won't give SD the address because I think it is her asking for it and she wants to clarify that it is not her asking, she never asked and she doesn't want it.
FDH hangs up on her...
1. Duh, it's in the court order that he notify her, he sent the letter through his lawyer. And hilariously she will probably get it tomorrow.
2. She really thinks I'm going to make all 3 kids go the rest of their young life without knowing something so important as the address where they live because I am afraid BM will find out.
3. She really thinks I care that much about her.
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, it's in the court order
, it's in the court order that he notify her, he sent the letter through his lawyer. And hilariously she will probably get it tomorrow.
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I guess I am confused of why you did not just give her the address....
I can see where she's coming
I can see where she's coming from. SD is calling from BM's house, wanting to pass along information to a friend about coming over.
When my children were smaller, I'd always want to talk to the parents too -- not only to give them the address/directions, but to confirm the whole "coming over" thing -- dates/times/etc. I found that was MUCH easier than me giving it to kid, who gives it to other kid, who gives it to their parents...
Maybe being able to avoid the whole "address" thing with the BM was secondary.
Because dad does not know the
Because dad does not know the other parents,.... His child is just saying that her friend NEEDS to come over,....
The girl has never talked about any project, and has not shown any paperwork.
And I would also like to point out that SD called ME.... NOT HER DAD?? WHY?? Maybe because she knew what her dad would say,... I was not withholding information from the girl,... Just telling her that this was something more complicated than just an address and her dad was going to do something about it.
Yes you are totally
Yes you are totally misunderstanding the interaction,...he had not talked t o the parents yet,... He wanted to call the school, talk to the teacher and find this out to BE ABLE TO TALK TO THE PARENTS OF THE OTHER KID....
He wanted to talk to the parents before anything happened,... Not have some kid just show up at his house "some day" this weekend.
How do YOU THINK he is going
How do YOU THINK he is going to get the names and numbers of the kids parents,....???
My god you people are being dense,... He has never heard of the girl and SD doesn't know the names of her parents,...
please tell me HOW ELSE TO GET THE INFORMATION?
I don't know where you guys
I don't know where you guys get off on being parenting experts,... That your way is the only way,... And if the teacher won't give the name of the kid she wants to work with his daughter, then she can not expect that a project will be done over the weekend at one of the parents homes.... I'm not even going to talk to you any more,... You railroad every person on here that does not believe what you believe, or parent as photo copies of yourselves. Any further comments on my blog will be deleted.
You know, I have to wonder
You know, I have to wonder how something so simple can be made so difficult!
I agree that you should've
I agree that you should've just given the Skid the address. What was the big deal anyway? Doesn't she live with you?
Also, the school WILL NOT give out ANY student info. NONE, ZILCH.
This was just a fight that wasn't necessary, in my opinion.
There are MANY fights that can't be avoided this one wasn't one of those.
The original post has been
The original post has been forgotten,... This was her fathers decision about a situation with his daughter and BM was yelling that I was tring to withhold information from BM