Hi guys! I have been lurking for a while and decided to post to get a little advice. I have two SK's. SD-12 and SS-9. I have been with my husband for 7 years and married for two. I have a good relationship with BM. She comes here for holidays and parties. We go to her house for the same. We have the standard "every other weekend" custody arrangement. The kids and I get along wonderfully at this point, though I am aware that this could change any second.