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What do you do when Skid should be punished for something but they're already back at BM's?

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I know it's partially my fault because maybe I should have checked before she left with DH to go back to satan.

SD has a new room - built by me. I made her this really nice reading nook with fallen christmas lights and a sheer cloth draping everything. She got a brand new loft bed with a hangout spot underneath.

MIL text Dh asking him to drop off BS

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When the fuck is this woman going to learn?!
I flat out told her - and emailed her that until she can have respect for our boundaries and family that she cannot be in it. What Dh does with his mother is out of my control but that toxic bitch is to stay away from me and my child until she can get her act together.

Go figure she would text DH. Mr Switzerland.
Does she think she is slick?

I'm a sahm. My son is with me every day all the time.
She text him saying "I'm not sure what your work schedule is but do you think you can bring (BS1) over one day?"

Noticing that I'm not the only one.

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SD was with us this week and one of those days she hung out with MIL. MIL took her shopping and SD bought us gifts.
She came home, super excited to give us these gifts. I got some sort of horn (for football? - I don't really care for football) and chapstick. Again, she was super excited, so I acted enthused. SD said she picked everything out but Remember, MIL and I aren't on great terms so my gift choices could have been persuaded by her.

Next, DH opened his gift. He also got a horn, a coffee mug, some really nice pens for work, and a pillow with a little quote on it.

Ha. Ha ha ha. HAHAHAHAHA.

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BM finished school. She hasn't worked in years, by choice. Asked for a raise in support - and got it. Effing Finally she is done with college after switching up her degrees/subjects ten times and FINALLY, she has gotten a job. As a teacher. At SD's school.

*Yes, DH is going to file for a review for CS to get that extra money back we've been paying since she hasn't worked. This post is about something else though*

MIL is an issue.

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She has been a problem for most of our relationship. I almost think DH and I need to go to counseling solely for issues with his mother. He's to blame too. He never had boundaries with her so when she crosses mine or OURS, he used to make me feel ridiculous. Or say "that wasn't her intentions" poor old MIL does not know what she does.