Hi all,

This is my first entry.  I'm glad there is a place to vent. I'm starting individual counseling and my fiancee and I are starting family counseling next month.  

His son is 15, and had a blood clot in August, a month after his birthday.  It was caused due to his inactivity ( he will stay in bed for 22 hours a day on the weekends).  The clot has not dissolved, surgery may now be neccessary to remove it.  He is 94 pounds over weight, and morbidly obese according to the doctors.