I am expecting a baby girl this month with my fiancé. Our first daughter together and he already has a 6yo daughter of his own. She honestly drives me crazy. She is very loud and rambunctious. When she comes over she spills things, doesn't eat over the table, (even after I correct her) she also has weight issues and eats everything in sight. I don't have the heart to tell her stop eating everything. I don't want to upset her and I feel it's not my kid not my place. her dad doesn't either. He's not good at disciplining her at all because he hasn't been in her life.