Ugh. This is going to be my place to vent.
My mother put it into perspective the other day. I'm 24 years old, Divorced (no children from the marriage. and no children of mine whatsoever) I've known my boyfriend/fiancee for 8 years and we finally got together. but he was a package deal. We said "all in or nothing" and the NEXT DAY they moved in.
Its hard to adjust. his son tests my limits when his father is around. when his father is not around he comes to me calls me mommy tells me he loves me and is a perfect angel! But around his dad its different.