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Increased Sex Drive

tankh21's picture

My DH's sex drive has increased in the past couple of days. It went from nothing to I want sex everyday. I have no idea what is up with that but, I for one do not have a sex drive so this is really starting to drive me nuts. LOL Just thought I would start off with something different today on my blog. Have a great Friday StepTalk!

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twoviewpoints's picture

He's getting it now before your home is invaded of two kids and a headache of having BM go crazy for a month with her little darlings out of her sight and control. Biggrin

tankh21's picture

LOL that could be true twoviewpoints. We have the kids in June so maybe that is it.

tankh21's picture

No he has to take testosterone shots for the rest of his life since he doesn't produce enough. He got hurt at the gym about a year ago had, MRI's done, physical therapy, went the a pain management doctor which he prescribed pain medication of to him but, I am thinking that maybe since he is off the pain medication now and has less inflammation in his shoulder that is the cause of his increased sex drive. I guess a lot of people would be happy their DH's want sex from them but, I just don't want it like he does LOL.

secret's picture

haha... SO is 42, and by no means having difficulties in that area...

he popped a cialis a while back to see what the fuss was about... I got it more than usual for the next few days as well... good luck with that - I don't usually disagree to lovin' but after the 3rd day I was batting SO's paws away, leave me alone Boy, I'm raw!

tankh21's picture

LOL my DH is 39 will be 40 in August and only wanted sex about once a week and now it's everyday all of the sudden. Then he gets upset when I tell him that I'm tired.

secret's picture

lol, tell him a foot rub would go a long way towards making you un-tired }:)

I've always found when I'm too tired, SO will make extra effort to get me into it... then I get into it and I'm not tired anymore... those usually end up being the long sweaty sessions

Monchichi's picture

My mind can't comprehend the problem here. I could be half dead and I'd still want my husband in that way.

tankh21's picture

I just don't have a sex drive. I mean don't get my wrong I love the fact that my DH wants me but, I have always been this way. I don't like to cuddle or kiss or hold hands in public either.

tankh21's picture

Yeah I still give him sex when he wants it most of the time I mean after all he is my DH and I am in love with him. Men are so funny sometimes though. So when are you getting married?

tankh21's picture

Yeah I told my DH every 3 days is what I will compromise with him. Before he met me when he was single he was a big dog screwing women left and right. I didn't want to go out with him or even give him any right away because of how he was. I guess making him wait fixed him and love me and respect me because he married me and not BM. }:)

mommadukes2015's picture

Maybe it's one of those things that the more you do it the better you like it?

I don't know. I made the mistake of buying SO some new toys for Valentine's day. It's getting interesting around here.....SMDH.

tankh21's picture

LOL SMH }:)

mommadukes2015's picture

Forgive me, but that whole "if you have an erection lasting for 4 hours" thing...how as a woman are you supposed to know if the stuff worked too long?