Haven't posted for awhile...Skids have been with BM
Skids are in Mexico with BM and DH is freaking out because he cannot get a hold of them on their cell phones. I told him to chill out and leave them alone. He is worried that BM went there to live and is not coming back. BM's husband is from Mexico and has family there so DH has been calling and texting the skids everyday on their cell phones. I told him that he is acting like BM when the skids stay with us for an extended period of time and to just let them enjoy their vacation. I am sure they are coming back to the United States. I mean if she didn't it is kidnapping and she could lose her CS correct? DH and BM have 50/50 custody of the skids. Any way I told DH if he bugs BM then she will make our lives hell when the skids are with us on purpose. She is evil and vindictive like that! I mean I understand that he is worried about his kids but, he is acting just like BM and it is driving me crazy!
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No kidding. I would let it go
No kidding. I would let it go until their planned return time.
Yeah that is exactly what I
Yeah that is exactly what I told DH but I doubt he will listen to me. It's really annoying that he complains about BM but yet he goes and acts the same exact way as her.
Ugh, I feel bad for your DH.
Ugh, I feel bad for your DH. I'd be nervous too. Hell I get nervous when DH and BS7 are out and about and I can't get a hold of DH. I can't imagine my children being in another country and going radio silent.
I understand how you guys
I understand how you guys feel but, BM will be wreaking havoc on our lives if DH calls her and bugs her everyday on their vacation and in turn that causes stress for everyone. I told DH to try to call or text the skids every other day or call BM in the middle of the week to talk to them just not everyday.
today is not a good day for
today is not a good day for me to comment lol....
I would tell DH - well if she does not return with the kids it's all your fault for signing the passports, don't blame BM blame yourself, now shut the hell up I'm not interested in hearing this...
but I can only imagine what he's going through..... not a nice situation
LOL I wish I could tell him
LOL I wish I could tell him that Acra but BM made sure that him signing the passports was a stipulation in the CO so DH had no choice. I feel for him I really do but, BM will wreak havoc on us when the skids are with us for an extended period of time and then it will cause everyone stress.
Because he signed the CO with
Because he signed the CO with that stipulation?
I know. I don't get it.
I know. I don't get it. Blocking your kids from traveling is just mind boggling to me.
I am in agree that kids
I am in agree that kids should be able to travel but please do not call my DH an idiot that is my job LOL.
July 29th.
July 29th.
My kid is on day 5 of a 10
My kid is on day 5 of a 10 day vacation. I haven't heard from her and I don't plan on calling her. She's with her best friend's family, which is technically SO's step cousin.
We have never called the skids on vacation. We would just see them when they got back.
My DH and BM do this too..
My DH and BM do this too.. drives me bonkers... if they cannot ask each other about the kid's welfare at least once a day they go insane... I am constantly telling him "Dude if someone was bleeding to death or injured-trust me you would have heard about it.. BM would need money duh." Just let it go until they are back. There are times we are busy doing stuff with the kids so we don't check our phones.. its life.
Yeah of course and my DH
Yeah of course and my DH doesn't think that BM would call if something happened because she does care about money the most.
I think it's sometimes hard
I think it's sometimes hard for them to just let go.. and I also think a lot when we have the kids and BM blows up DH's phone she is doing it intentionally to disrupt family time. Just how she is. But I can't blame it all on her--they both do it. *sigh
Now that bs is older we
Now that bs is older we do.not talk when he is on vacation with his dad. I know if there is an issue ex will call. He still expects his 2 calls on my week, MEH, they only last 15 minutes and are full of stupid banter or snooping.
I think your DH should relax.
That is exactly what I told
That is exactly what I told him. To relax and start worrying when you don't hear from them after July 29th.