Forcing CP to have a psych evaluation?

Does anyone know if you can force a CP to have a psych evaluation? If so, can it be filed with the court or is it going to cost money and have to get a lawyer?

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Oh ok so DH would have to

Oh ok so DH would have to have a psych evaluation as well.

Probably. And it would need

Probably. And it would need to be court ordered. And these things are expensive and not covered by insurance.

Yeah so pretty much SOL

Yeah so pretty much SOL because DH doesn't have the money to take BM back to court.

It's not about a pissing contest. She is manic right now and thought someone broke into her house and moved things around and stole a toilet seat from her upstairs bathroom then blamed DH and I for it. OSS has told us all of this and said that BM told him that she thought it was us going into her house just to screw with her. Now the YSS is freaked out and doesn't want to go back to his house. BM didn't even call the cops and fill out a police report. To me if I thought someone broke into my house the first thing I would've done is call the cops so either she made it up or is mentally ill. I just told DH to document everything about it with the day and description of what happened so if she tries to take him back to court for something then he will have this to show to the judge.

Is this because she asked her

Is this because she asked her son if your DH had been in her home?

I'm not sure it's 100% crazy to ask a question like that.

Like, you come home, things look moved around... you wonder if your EX brought your kids over to pick something up. So, you ask your kid if that happened.

That isn't all that crazy of a scenario.

Your BM sounds a bit overbearing and controlling but just on the basis of what you have said about her, she doesn't appear "crazy" in the generally accepted definition of that word.

I am going to gift you with a mantra that you need to take to heart.

"don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you."

Don't poke the bear. So, you make her get a psych eval. Then your DH has to have one.. oh and YOU too! Then something comes about about one of YOU and your DH loses custody and has to pay MORE CS. Remember, it's just as likely that YOU and your DH will end up in a worse position as the BM.

Ok but, to me it's nuts that

Ok but, to me it's nuts that she would think that DH would actually go into her home just to screw with her. I mean why would she think that he even thinks about getting back at her for what she did to him. I am the one that is bothered by her the most so that would give me more motive but I don't need to screw with her like that because in the end she will have to answer to god.

I will be honest here.... as

I will be honest here.... as wound up as you get about stuff that is pretty benign on this site, if she gets a whiff of that attitude, I absolutely think she could think that.

I am not saying you WOULD do it.. I am saying that if she gets the same vibe that some of us do, she might think you did.

And... with all the tit for tat that goes on with your DH and her, I can see her being suspicious of him to.

Again, not saying either of you did it...but I can see her asking the question.

Well I am not like that and

Well I am not like that and not going to waste my time screwing with her. So she can ask and try to prove whatever she wants but, it obviously wasn't that serious and she wasn't that scared because she didn't call the cops. Just sounds like karma to me. I do what you guys are saying though I am high strung and everything that she does get to me so she thinks that we have motive.

I'm just going to throw out a

I'm just going to throw out a hypothesis here.

You say YSS is afraid to go home. You say it was a missing toilet seat from the upstairs bathroom. Do you think that this is perhaps an area of the home that she wouldn't normally be in when the kids aren't there? Do you think that it's possible that YSS broke the seat and left a mess behind before he came to your place? Sounds like it might be that he is afraid of getting in trouble for causing the mess himself. If she normally doesn't go "up to the kids' rooms' unless they are there.. maybe this is the first time she noticed it?

That could be it I didn't

That could be it I didn't even think about that but, why ask a 12 year old kid to ask his Dad and SM if they are the ones that were inside his mother's house. OSS specifically said that his mother thought that one of us did it.

Ok so maybe one of the kids

Ok so maybe one of the kids did it and doesn't want to tell her so OSS would rather her think one of us did it. Well like I said I don't want to get involved. I just thought that she was bat s*** crazy.

Oh..heck yeah.. of COURSE a

Oh..heck yeah.. of COURSE a kid would rather avoid the blame. lol.

"It wasn't me"

"she caught me red

"she caught me red handed...." I know the song:)

What color were your hands

What color were your hands before?

while you were shaggin' on

while you were shaggin' on the bathroom floor?

I just don't want to be in

I just don't want to be in the middle for this drama or for her to think that I am "screwing" with her and moving stuff around in her house. She also said some other stuff was moved around not just the toilet seat was missing as well.

Then ignore it all, laugh

Then ignore it all, laugh about it and forget about it...

being me, I would so screw with her and see to it that people actually do mess with her stuff when she's not there, even if I have to pay the skids

then she can finally meet you

then she can finally meet you face to face...

Dangit, Acra, I just snorted

Dangit, Acra, I just snorted HOT COFFEE out my nose. OOOOOOOOWWWWW!!!!

Awwww why are you even paying

Awwww why are you even paying attention to what I do Lashy you must have no life since you are following what I do. LMAO!!! Dumb b****

I don't get it Lashy why the

I don't get it Lashy why the hell do you have it out for me? I should be able to post whatever I want on my blog you just seem to be an unhappy person wanting to attack people because I have seen you attack others on here. Go be unhappy somewhere else and stay off my posts if you want to be ugly like that. People come on here for advice and support and you just have an ugly soul.

Obviously, she has pulled the

Obviously, she has pulled the wings off of all the flies that were buzzing around the sh!t pile and needs to bring her meanness to STalk. SMDH

bwhahahahahahaha poor

bwhahahahahahaha poor flies......

I will start a GoFundMe page for prosthetic wings for flies

Start a GoFundMe for happy

Start a GoFundMe for happy hour for cool step parents.

She thinks you're me. It's

She thinks you're me. It's the only explanation I have. Her and her other personalities have had a forum boner for me for... well...about 18 months now, I guess.

Or maybe she's just that way. Who knows. Can't figure the cray out. She just likes drama, I suppose.

Good luck, you'll need it if she's targeted you as well.