Ok.. been with DH for around 6 years.. lived with him for 4 of them...Everything is great...not really.. I have 2 kids- one away at college and one about to graduate in Dec(he lives with us every other two weeks). We moved to a location where his daughter, who is 16, could go to a great school with my kids. We have not had a weekend alone since!! My DD lived with us for 3 years and I made sure she went with her father every other weekend so we could have "Our" time.