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how am I supposed to "involve" SSs when they haven't been seen for 4 and 8 MONTHS respectively!!??
Last night I got a little annoyed about something that OH has said a couple of times.......he is really conscious of his age atm with a baby on the way, and not not being able to run around and kick a ball about with his new son when he is old enough.....so last night, he said the same line he has said a number of times.... with his hand on my bump he said "daddy may be old and not able to run around with you, but you have SS19 and SS17 who will take to footie and kick a ball about".....
I think somebody has been feeding SD7 something that is sooooo wrong!!
So, the bedroom saga......again....only this time SD7 seemed to have a different understanding this weekend for some reason....and I can only assume its come from either MIL last weekend when she collected SD7 from mine (which, considering what MIL said I doubt) or BM and SS17 and such, or possibly at some point maybe OH........or maybe SD7 just has the wrong idea of what she is to expect....
so, maybe OH needs a little help with understanding the bedroom saga a little more!
I was hoping, that after the talks and what MIL had said that things had sunk in or at least started too .....until yesterday......
So, OH might be Grandad at the same time as a new dad!
We dont see SS's and thats totally fine by me....I totally dislike SS17 and Im not ashamed to admit it, because of what he has said and done...SS19 annoys the proverbial sh*t of me with his childish and lazy ass attitude......
UPDATE; OH trying to refuse BD7 coming home to suit SD7
So, this saga got a little deeper, and I think it gave OH something to think about too....
During the Saturday discussion re the bedrooms, the coming home part came up as well as SD7s emotions.
UPDATE; The Bedroom Saga....
So, the debate took a slight turn in the right direction on Saturday night.....
MIL dropped SD7 off at mine for her sleepover and expressed an unhappiness to how the bedrooms were going to work.
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CAN OH PREVENT MY BD COMING HOME TO WAIT FOR SD?
I have another issue that came up last night, that Ive not addressed yet.....I think Ive not addressed it because I think Ive already started my plan of action anyway.....OH is so determined that my BD7 and SD7 meet the new baby at exactly the same time...and I mean EXACT!
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OMG THE BEDROOM SAGA WENT SO MUCH BETTER THAN EXPECTED...PITY BM IS A C*NT!
So last night OH was all excited cos SD7 is so excited at having a new brother etc.....I asked casually....."will SD7 be ok about losing her bedroom here?"...OH with normal conversational gap, nothing strained replied "Yes, she will be fine"...I asked if he was sure and he was adamant that SD7 would be ok.....so in my head im a little like Oh ok then!!
So,. I think its all about to go pear shaped now we now the sex of the new baby!!
Had a scan yesterday, all is well and baby is good strong and healthy.........and a boy!!! Now for those who have read my blogs, this is something i wanted as I have a DD7, and a little completes me......but as you can guess, the bedroom factor is about to flare up and Im not sure how its going to be handled..I wouldnt mind, but I genuinely dont get the issue really, to me its an obvious and foregone conclusion that would happen whether I had a boy or girl........
So, SS19 LIED about something SD7 did and got SD7 to lie and cover, but OH reckons he doesnt need to say anything
Id actually forgotten about this, but Oh reminded me of it last night....
In the UK, the kids break up for 6 weeks worth of holidays in June. SD7 was basically living at her nans before theses holidays as BM couldnt be bothered to take her to and from school. One of SD's brothers would collect her from school and take her back to the nans.