SS19 not "visiting me" but im expected to cook for him!?
OH leaving for work this morning...
OH "SS19 might be popping down tonight to see me and SD7"
Me "Ok, no probs"
Paid no attention......I dont want to see him anyway so makes no odds to me.....then later this morning had a phone conversation with OH;
Me "So not sure what to do for tea tonight, reluctant to waste the beef from last night" (had a roast beef dinner, but have a fair bit of beef leftover!)
OH "Grab some sausages and pots and girls can have sausages for tea and we can have beef with mash or something"
Me "Yeah, ok, Ive got sausages and such so it will be easy enough. Just dont want the beef to be wasted...Ill do that then"
OH "Between, me, you and SS19 the beef will be all gone tonight"
:jawdrop: OMG....SO I make SS19 feel unwelcome, to the point he is apparently reluctant to come and "visit", when he does he is coming to see "OH and SD7"...me and BD7 dont exist, but Im apparently expected to COOK FOR THE LITTLE SH*T!?
Talk about a small plate of food....kid wants to eat, he can get a f*cking job then........
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I would tell OH that you are
I would tell OH that you are going to save the beef for tomorrow, you need another ingredient from the store and "it's too late to go get it." Tell him this at the last minute. You could make something quick, cheap and easy like grilled cheese and fries listed above or................ }:)
Put the leftover beef in the freezer for the weekend and take your BD7 out to dinner! That way the beef doesn't spoil or go to SS19's piehole (or OH's this time) and you also don't have to be around when they "dine."
Ca fait bien! }:) }:) }:)
~ Moon
Put the beef in the freezer.
Put the beef in the freezer. You and BD7 go out to eat and a movie. Leave SS19 and DH home alone for father and son bonding.
Im glad it isn't just me who
Im glad it isn't just me who thought this was annoying!!!! lol....I was fuming!! lol...
I was going to do all you all said and then thought....hell no, why should I miss out on my tea!!! lol..... so im just gonna say there isn't enough for SS19, so he can have a pot noodle or something if he that hungry, or he can wait until he goes HOME and have HIS OWN food....Im damned if my BD7 and me have to go without and makes changes to for the scrounger!!.....
Thing is, there is no guarantee he is gonna turn up...OH said SS19 "MIGHT" be popping down.....and Ive done it before where I have cooked and he hasnt shown up so f*ck him..............im not a bloody door mat nor do I run a hotel!
So Peeps.....IM having beef with my tea, as is OH after his hard day at work....ive not done a grocery shop, so SS19 can have toast...and be grateful.....