Ok, This is just a quick one that Id like you wonderful people to advise me on....

As you know, we have not seen SS17 for about 8 months, and Im seriously in no rush at all....SS19 has suddenly returned to the scene last week....
On Saturday gone, after drinkies with OH, SS19 apparently left his dad to go to his GFs house to sleep....GF refused to allow him in the house for some reason (as would I if he turned up p*ssed, stoned and I had 2 kids under the age of 4 asleep at 10.30 of a night!)...so he turned up at ours even though we were in bed at 11 and OH let him in cos SS19 couldnt be bothered to walk to HIS OWN FLAT!.......anyway, I wasnt overly happy about it, given that he is 19 and does have his own home and that it was pure laziness that he came to ours....this isnt the first time its happened, but am I wrong to want it to be the last?

Its bothered me before, but ive swung with it but it happened virtually every weekend, but with a baby on the way, the room SSs sleep in is currently SD7s, well it wont be by the end of the month due to the move and prep for the baby....Im also an early riser, and if SD7 is staying with us, SSs would sleep in the lounge (of which we have only 1) so when I get up, Im left sitting on the stairs or in my kitchen cos I cant get into my lounge.......so am I right to say that it needs to stop permanently now?

Im thinking more future, baby in nursery, BD7 in her room - i REFUSE to put an adult male in the same room as my BD7, its not right as far as im concerned, especially NOT with bunk beds - Im up with baby, they are in the lounge - i cant sit on the stairs or in a kitchen then - can I reasonably stop them rom turning up at all hours when there is a baby sleeping/just got down etc etc?

Like I said, we dont see SS17, and hopefully SS19 wont pull this again, especially as he has only just started coming back to see his dad, and its not suddenly turned into an regular occurrence, but thats where id like it to stay...we simply dont have the space to keep doing this, but since he has decided to bless us with his presence, Im worried that this will start happening again like it did before....