I am new to this site so i really don't know what you say or talk about but i kind of need some input on something. I have been with my step kids since they have been 4 so its ben 4 yrs now. For some reason lately my step son who is only 8 has been acting out alot. Their father is in the Navy and is always gone so i know that effects them. But lastnight my step son got a hold of matches and lit the trash can on fire. He said he knew what he was doing. How do i handle this situation. They both take turns tag teamimg me.