that will make you go "WTF??!!"

DH and I invited BM to attend part of OUR wedding. SD played a big part in our wedding so we invited BM to the ceremony so she could see SD in her first big wedding, nice gown. It was up to BM whether she came or not. She came to the ceremony, had drinks at cocktails (same place) and then left. She mingled with DH family and daughter and I think met my mom. Whatever... I didn't care really at all, except that I was worried she wasn't going to leave when dinner came! We wanted to show SD that we could be all together in this. Plus we had a REALLY NICE wedding!! But that's my frame of mind.. that's where I'm coming from. He married me... I married him and when I did, I knew she came with him like a bad case of shingles or something worse. I TRY super hard not to let that stuff get to me. Sometimes more successfully than others. What gets to me is when she treats DH like he's not a good father, or he's not a good person.. or when she treats SD poorly. Or when she feels like DH still owes her his life. And I am a really jealous woman. My DH is soo handsome (better looking than me, I married up!!) So when I post something that's the opposite of most on here... maybe that helps explain a bit more!! ha!! Are you guys scratching your heads now????