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Apologies - I am feeling very saucy today

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Submitted by Stick on Tue, 09/21/2010 - 5:26pm

I don't know what's up with me... But I am feeling very "evil" today and am posting a lot of swear words on a bunch of different posts. So sorry if I offend anyone with poor language, I don't mean to.

DH comes home tonight for 2 days, and tomorrow - lucky us - we get to meet with BM and SD's therapist to go over college and how it is going to be paid for.

When BM was talking to SD about college, she said ... "Don't worry honey - We'll help pay for it... Daddy, and Stick, and I'll help, and Daddyy....."

Even SD noticed that 3 out of the 4 people that BM mentioned to help SD pay for college were DH and I. ha!

I told SD that I will help with her father, but that is not BM's call to make. And I will be telling BM that tomorrow as well. DH & I literally have lost about $50,000 in income between this year and last because BM cannot provide a stable home for SD. So as far as I'm concerned that's my contribution to her college! UGH..... I need to get myself somewhat under control so I present my facts logically and calmly. And so I keep my mouth shut so DH can speak first. It is a problem I have.

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Submitted by Stick on Tue, 09/21/2010 - 5:35pm

Thanks StepAside and Maux. I appreciate that!

On another post I referred to BM as a "raggedy ass c*nt".. and even though I kind of feel bad saying it, it always makes me smile inside because I think of a dark haired beat up old raggedy ann doll with a pull string that says "But I'm the mother" ... "I'd do anything for my daughter (if it doesn't cost any money!"... "if you buy me this I'll grind on you" and... "Ohhh blow jobs are disgusting"!!

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Submitted by wriggsy on Wed, 09/22/2010 - 6:12am

I blame (my) the anger on the new school year. It's only the 5th week of school and I just received emails from 2 of SD's teachers. She is failing at least 2 classes...probably more..we will be getting progress reports soon. One class-her grade is a 49!! This is the girl that just attended summer school for 2 classes this past summer...hated it and complained the whole time! And again with the lying! I asked one teacher about something SD told us (knowing it HAD to be a lie because it was so stupid!.."Teacher told me she lowered my grade because of my perfume" This teacher has horrible allergies and SD has been made to sit outside the room a few times due to her excessive perfume use) anyhow..asked the teacher and teacher was so pissed that she is taking it up with the principal today!!!

And yesterday, my daughter told me that SD tried to start a fight with a girl after school. Supposedly, the girl went to tell the principal, so we shall see if anything comes out of it!

I can not tell you how badly I wish she would just move out of my life, but this is the choice I made.