Is it wrong to hate someone with every ounce of your being? Just her existence makes you crazy? I cannot stand my OSD. Our marriage is falling apart because of her (ask my husband and he'll say it's because I'm trying to control him). I am so sick of DH talking about how 4 counselors have told me that there is a difference between parental and marital love. Well, when you treat your kids better than your wife, yeah, I can see the difference.