Awkward moment dropping off SS3 last night...
When we drop off SS3 on Sundays at BM's apartment I always wait in the car. Yesterday, while waiting, a car pulled up next to us. I glanced at it for a second then continued on with changing the radio station and texting my dad. I looked up when the people were opening the door to the actual building, and realized it was SD5 with her bio dad. It dawned on me that it was them that pulled up next to me. I felt kind of like an ass for not waving at SD5 or acknowledging them at all, because I hadn't even taken the time to really look at the people in the car, but it was past the point for me to be able to even roll down a window or anything.
So I looked back at his car next to me, and inside was the biodad's girlfriend, waiting just like me. I would have waved at her (although we've never met) but she looked away right when I looked at her. AWKWARD! So the two dads bringing the kids in at the same time to BM's while the girlfriends/fiances wait in their cars, right next to each other...
Then to make it even MORE awkward, BM's new BOYFRIEND pulls up next to biodad's car!! I almost died laughing at the whole thing. Fiance was just walking out of the building as the new bf was walking in, and I watched them awkwardly say hello. This was of course right after fiance ran into SD5 and biodad in the hallway, who was about to run into new bf also.
I can only imagine it was an eye-opener for the new boyfriend...running into the two fathers of your gf's kids like that? We'll see how long he sticks around!
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That is so sad for those
That is so sad for those kids. Seems BM has a revolving snatch.
Why yes, she does! She
Why yes, she does!
She claims that she only introduces her kids to people that she "thinks" are going to be "something important". The issue is, every single guy she goes on a date with she seems to think is going to "be something important"!!!
Exactly.
Exactly.
a couple of months ago we
a couple of months ago we dropped the skids off on a sunday, BM failed to answer the door for about 10 mins and SO didnt have his phone on him.
her bf strutted up to the door while this happened as he was 'sent out to the shop' and didnt have any keys to get back in. They both stood their awkwardly and my SO tried to make small talk. the skids had no idea of the weird dymanic but were just chatting away to both of them like nothing was up.
we then found out thru a mutual friend that she engineered this to make SO 'jealous' of her 'new younger man'.
Yes, jealousy is exactly what he felt standing next to the 24 year old tracksuit wearing pothead who couldnt even mumble more than 3 words for the whole 10 mins.
"Yes, jealousy is exactly
"Yes, jealousy is exactly what he felt standing next to the 24 year old tracksuit wearing pothead who couldnt even mumble more than 3 words for the whole 10 mins."
^^^^^^^^^^^BAHAHAH! Yeah I can only imagine that BM had some sort of weird motive to scheduling her bf to come to her house right at that time...I'm sure more for SD5's dad to see him than my fiance, because she's always tried harder to make that guy jealous.
Seriously, our BM could care
Seriously, our BM could care less that her bf is basically a certified idiot. She is 39 and has a 24 year old bf. That means everything to her.
All she cares about is that she 'pulled' a younger man AGAIN. My SO was 4 years younger than her (big whoooop) but this one, he takes the cake. 24, no job, pothead, chained to the xbox, ex raver. He is the spitting image of Ricky from Trailer Park Boys and a good 50 IQ points dumber. The status updates on his FB are epic:
'i hav nevr been moor happyer!'
'gunnna do every1 think it takes foor this relashunshiip 2 woorck!'
Bruised Peach- I hope that
Bruised Peach- I hope that moron is "fixed", for the sake of humanity.
oh no, on the contrary we are
oh no, on the contrary we are expecting a pregnancy announcement the second the Decree is announced next month.
the woman loves a party and its been awfully quiet for the last 2-3 months and there is also the matter of SD3 having to go to nursery shortly...god forbid BM should have to
RETURN TO THE WORKFORCE!! :jawdrop:
Geez! How many dudes does
Geez! How many dudes does this one woman need?
Ick to that BM. Can you say, " No class?"
Yeah, our BM has the
Yeah, our BM has the "revolving snatch". Three children by three different fathers, the eldest two are irish twins, she had one at 15 and the other at 16. Their birthdays are three days apart. ICK :sick:
Seriously, I know about being "young and dumb" but seriously. When I asked FDH how in the hell did she let the second one happen, he said "she got involved with the wrong guy".............uhhhhh, apparently BM doesn't have a brain, and can't make her own decision. (BTW yes I did ask him if either one was a product of rape or something like that, nope she admitted to just being "young and dumb" and "getting involved with the wrong guy") HA!
Awk-waaard...
Awk-waaard...
I was pretty sure it'd be
I was pretty sure it'd be confusing!
Glad you figured it out though 
SteppingUp, I vote for your
SteppingUp, I vote for your BM to win the "Revolving Snatch" award of the year!!
Wow, and I thought our BM was bad...
I would've been cracking up so hard if I would've witnessed that exchange! Your fiance, then her other baby daddy, then her present bf - all pulling up to her place at the same time. Hmmmmm...can someone say "orchestrated" that way??? Your BM is a piece of work.
I'm left wondering...what did your fiance say when he got back into the car?? What does HE think?
Oh, and why is it that many of these pathetic BM's try to hook up with a much younger guy, thinking it will make them look "good" (in their minds, superior or hot maybe???)? All it does is magnify their patheticness and make them look stupid. Do these BM's really believe it looks good when she's 39 and dating a 24 yr old idiot?? Unfortunately, it seems that with MANY of these BM's, the common denominator, is that APPEARANCE is everything. Too bad they don't realize it is seen NEGATIVELY to be dating a guy that's practically young enough to be your SON.
(Milomom shaking her head).
I was laughing when he got
I was laughing when he got back into the car and he was just shaking his head...I pointed out that SD's biodad's gf was in the car next to us (still) and he kind of glanced at her (we've never seen her in person, just pictures).
I'm still really curious whether BM did this on purpose...and part of me thinks she did. I think it would be to try to make SD's dad jealous of her new bf, but I think it totally backfired on her. We found out yesterday that BM is no longer dating htis new guy...he ALREADY ran for the hills!
Maybe the 24 yo idiot is
Maybe the 24 yo idiot is actually smarter than he appears! After all, he knew to RUN away from BM as quickly as possible!!
RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!!! LOL!!
SteppingUp, I must admit that if that were ME in your position (waiting in the car and watching this hot mess unfold with all the baby daddies coming to BM's door at the same time), I would've CRACKED UP HYSTERICALLY when my FDH got back to the car. I KNOW I would've said some sarcastic remark like "Wow, that's ONE FINE PIECE OF ASS IN APARTMENT 203B, huh FDH???" LOL!!!
You KNOW that your BM is such a WHORE.
I REALLY give you props for laughing but not saying anything. I don't think I would've been so nice...
HAHAHAHA... it still makes me
HAHAHAHA... it still makes me laugh!! And yes, it's true -- she's for sure no longer with that guy! Good for him!
Thanks Maux!! LOL!! Of
Thanks Maux!! LOL!!
Of course if I were actually in that moment that Stepping found herself in, I probably wouldn't have been able to think of such a witty comment THAT quickly. It's always AFTER the fact that I think to myself: "I should've said X". Don't you HATE when that happens???
I personally liked Finey's "rolling ticker" scenario: "374 served and counting...NEXT!!!" LOL!!!