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No more emails from BM.....
Got an email from BM this morning....it came in last night about 1 AM.
This was in response to an email we sent to her 5 DAYS AGO, and was our response to her and SD's latest lies and accusations....see post "I'm soooooo beyond pissed at SD and BM". Of course, that post doesn't say it all but it gives the general idea.
Anyway, she ripped and roared and called names and made more accusations like she always does and when I printed it, it was 4 PAGES LONG!!!
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I am SOOOO beyond PISSED at SD and BM
I thought we had a pretty good weekend, considering SD12 had an attitude all weekend and kept taking it out on the boys. I know she's going on 13 and will soon be a "terrible teen" but as DH FINALLY came to realize this weekend, SD is used to getting her own way at BM's but she doesn't get away with as much when she is with us.
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My own EX (the DeadBeat) and possible payment of Arrearages.....Finally!!!
My exH is a typical deadbeat dads!
At this moment he is nearly $20,000 behind in child support!!! He hasn't been caught up in over 10 years and the number has only gotten higher and higher.
He doesn't work much and when he does it's usually for cash so that it's not recorded.
Years ago he could have gotten the original amount reduced...I told him to do it (it's better than getting behind)...my lawyer told him to do it...Hell, the judge even told him once to file the paperwork to get it reduced...but he's too lazy!! Well, that's HIS problem that he's this far behind.
HOLY CRAP....Here's the rest.......
Some of you may have read my post a couple weeks ago about other SS wanting to move in with us.
He still does......
He told BM over the last couple weeks that he wants to come live with us and OMG the treatment he got from BM. She screamed at him and grounded him for 5 months for wanting to "leave her" and even went so far as to tell him that if he were to continue wanting to come live here that she would not come and get him for visitation and that she would disown him.....WTF???!!!!!!!
This woman (and I use that term loosely) has completely lost her mind.
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HOLY CRAP....Where do I Start??!!!!!
First of all, picked SS and SD up at 6, as usual, for the weekend.
Their Step-Grandparents car was in the driveway so H told SS (the one who lives with us) that he better go in and say hello in case they aren't here on Sunday when we drop his brother and sister off. SS went to the door but it was locked so he had to wait. His SGma answered the door, but only opened it a crack instead of just inviting him in...SS finally got inside the door when his brother and sister came down to go out...SGma gave him a very reluctant hug.
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Dead-beat BM always in our wallet
I know a lot of you out there know what I'm talking about. We all try to provide financially for the SK's who live with their BM's. We all want a lot of things for our kids (bio or step) but sometimes that just isn't always financially possible.
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Can't Understand Normal Thinking
This is a phrase we use in email communications with BM. It has an underlying meaning that makes us smile...especially since BM hasn't figured it out yet
Can any of the readers here figure it out?
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Glad to be proven wrong...So Far
Picked SS and SD up at 6 pm. As soon as they got into car, SS(11) says, "man I'm glad to be out of there...They're all driving me crazy!!"
It's been a month since they've been here and they're usually glad to get away from BM but this weekend they're especially glad to be coming. SK's got report cards a couple weeks ago and are now both grounded because....their grades weren't good enough!! BM expects straight A's because HER KIDS SHOULD BE PERFECT!!
We even had SS's teacher email us once and tell us at PTC BM had given her that exact impression.
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Waiting for the other shoe to drop
When dealing with BM, everything seems to ALWAYS be SOOOOOOOOO complicated...AGH!!
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How did MY Dad get involved??
Wow, this can get complicated.....but here goes.
This morning, SS told me he left something for me in my chair in the living room. It was a ripped up picture...a picture of his Mom and StepDad that he had in his room.
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