I married a man with three kids and I accept him with his children. However they are three small children age 10 five and three. I have one 13-year-old boy. By now I am so over having to watch small children because my own child is already at an age where I don't have to babysit him. Am I a bad wife if I refuse to watch his kids while he goes to work? I work just as hard as he does and my weekends are precious to me.