I left on Sept 26 and it was the hardest thing I ever did. Five years of crazy BM, 4 skids under 12, and a fiancee that was a Disney Dad and a narcissist expecting me to do everything for everyone.

And I did everything. I cleaned and made lunches and did laundry and organized everyone. I also worked full time. I tried and tried to make it work for five years. He let the kids do whatever they wanted. No rules, no boundaries, no consequences.