Hi, new to all of this... I had my partners children introduced to me a month ago and I am completely lost. I'm 21 and I all of a sudden have two girls aged 4 & 5. I have started writing my own blog www.21andastepmum.wordpress.com to vent on but I need some advice.

We have already faced many obstacles and issues but my main question is WHEN/IF does it become fun? Will I ever enjoy it?