I hate to be the crazy lady that jumps right in with complaining but heaven knows I have kept my mouth shut for so long that I just might pop! My SD will be 18 in just a few days and I feel guilty just typing this. I cannot stand to be around the child. Her bio mother is proud of the accomplishment that "hey at least she's alive" she has done the bare minimum. Too busy trying to find the next baby daddy. My SD was supposed to move in with us but would rather spend her senior year drinking, drugging sleeping around and homeless then acting right. Her father has zero control.