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Submitted by StepMomTaxi on Sun, 02/09/2014 - 8:00pm

DH, I will NEVER EVER feel any sense of having a "Family" with you, your kids, and my Bios at our home.

I look at at it as: There is you and me and our relationship, there is my relationship with my bios, there is your relationship with your kids, and then there's a fucked up thrown together hodge-podge of what you consider "Our Family" which is basically 3 completely different visitation schedules for kids combined with the drama and stress BM inflicts on our daily schedules.

BM wants ROFR but then she isn't home with the kids.

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Submitted by StepMomTaxi on Sat, 02/08/2014 - 10:21pm

Looking for thoughts on this.

DH and BM have 50/50 visitation. DH is supposed to give BM Right of First Refusal on his days when he will working 8+ hours.

Rather than have the kids moving back and forth between homes when one of those ROFR days falls in the middle of his days with them, he has asked BM if it is ok for the kids to stay at our home with me if I am off work. This way they can stay in one place.

BM refuses and says she wants the kids those days. Ok fine.