It is very unfortunate that SS13 is living with us at least until the end of the school year.. He has now shown DH the same disrespect that he has shown me. Yesterday someone called but we didn't get to the phone in time and SS13 grabbed the phone but no one was there. DH told him to hang up the phone and let me see the caller id to see who called. SS then told DH ," I am calling my sisters!" DH then told him no, and to hang up the phone. SS said again, " I am calling my sisters!" And that's exactly what he did. I just stood there and watched him disobey. I know it's something small but that right there is why I get annoyed. The kid thinks he can do whatever he wants regardless of who tells him to do something. I know he's mad he can't play football this year but for one he has seizures and a tumor on his brain and those boys hit hard and if he played and had a brain bleed he could die. Oh yeah DH didn't sign the paperwork to say SS could play and yesterday SS tried to get me to sign them. Um...NO!!!!! I told him." I cannot sign those papers if your dad didn't do it then you can't play football." He got all pissy. I asked DH if SS knew about the tumor and he said yeah he knows. *sigh* BM said he could play just for him to be careful. :? Why on earth would she be ok with him playing knowing there in an inoperable tumor on his brain???