I'm feeling something I don't even know how to explain. After a great weekend, my husband of 6 years made a comment at lunch about a co-workers wife moving back in. So I asked what changed that she is moving back in-he said, her kids are gone. He then said that at 18, after graduation he would expect that my son would leave. My husband hasn't liked my son and doesn't talk to him, when we got married, it was our fault as adults not to discuss how each would be able to interact with each others kids.