1) So SS forgot his medication in the car when BM dropped him off. When he realized this he started to go on and on about how he wish he had phone, that this was an emergency and he needed to contact his mom. I do not call BM - not ever, I called DH, who was at work, and told him to call her and tell her what happened, and he did.

Later in the weekend, DH managed to discover that SD had her cellphone and was instructed to keep it a secret! So, when SS forgot his medication, she never even tried to contact BM.

DH told me to leave it alone, but I gave my mini-lecture about "helping your brother" anyway, and SS got the mini-lecture about "when he can learn to be responsible for his stuff, he might qualify to get a cell phone".

2) BM called DH in a huff because she was doing her taxes and it was rejected saying "all her dependents have been claimed". According to the divorce agreement, DH gets to claim SD (which we did) and BM gets to claim SS. So, I dunno who stole her dependent but it sure wasn't us. Let the IRS come knocking at our door, darling, because our hands are clean!! Luckily too, we don't have to get her to sign that 8332 form, or else we'd never get to claim SD!