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BM is psycho!

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Submitted by stepmom_25 on Tue, 02/22/2011 - 9:50am

So all morning yesterday BM was texting DH out of control, like 10 texts about how she thinks he is such an asshole and that he needs to stop telling her what to do and that now we can't have our one weekend a month that was recently agreed upon. She was harassing him but he didn't respond to a single text! So proud of him! However, this brings up a new problem, we have him all week every week and if she says we can't have our one weekend a month, what's to stop us from just keeping him that weekend?!?! There is no CO or CS and we just kind of work things out as we go.

interesting conversation with ss7

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Submitted by stepmom_25 on Mon, 02/21/2011 - 3:57pm

I had to take the day off of work to watch my SS7 today. His mom is unreliable and was supposed to have him today but due to a fight with my DH yesterday I came to the rescue (as usual). We were at the grocery store today and SS said, "I could call you Mom, even though you're my stepmom, your my mom too." I said, "How would your mom like it if she heard you calling me 'Mom'?" He thought about it and said, "Well you're my mom too." I told him that he was right, that I'm one of his parents, but that his mom is the only one he should call "Mom."

first of many vents and some background....help!!!!

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Submitted by stepmom_25 on Mon, 02/21/2011 - 12:47am

Ok so I'm new, this is my first post. Had a rough day with drama from BM. First here's some background. I have a SS7 and no children of my own. I've known SS and DH now for 5 years, married for 2.5 and DH and BM were never married and didn't have any kind of relationship when she got pregnant. No custody or CS has been determined. When BM was pregnant with SS she told my DH the BF that she wasn't sure who the father was, so he waited till my SS was born for a paternity test.