I AM A STEPPARENT TO 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. I LOVE THEM TO DEATH AND THEY ARE LIKE MINES. IVE BEEN IN THEIR LIFE SINCE THEY WERE 1 AND 3. FOR THE 1 YEAR OLD IM THE ONLY REAL FATHER FIGURE THEY HAVE EVER KNOWN. THEIR BIO DAD HAS BEEN IN N OUT THE PICTURE SINCE I HAVE BEEN IN IT. HAVING TROUBLE LETTING GO OF MY EX HE HAS MADE LIFE TRULY DIFFICULT AT TIMES. ALSO HAVING TROUBLE WITH MY SEXUALITY IN ALL THIS HAS ALSO MADE HIM FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY. I am a women as well as my wife. Lesbians are what most call us. I am a stud. So i dress like a man. Bt still all women.