My husbands X does not even have custody of her son. I have busted my butt to give my all to him. I have three boys of my own. When he first came here he sucked the life out of me daily and was very demanding of my attention. He has totally taken to my 13 year old and pushed me 11 year old to the side. He demands all of our attention. I have catered to him. Christmas I tried to make fair. Needless to say he went to his Moms family on Christmas. Came home with an xbox 360, PSP, Phone, camera etc etc. I realize that his mother is his mother and I can never replace her.