So I have my ss during the day while his dad works. We have him for weeks in the summer. Well he has been having a problem flushing the dam toilet. I have been trying to stay on him. and its starting to get irritating. Is there any ideas anyone has to give me to like help get him to so it. Also he never turns the light off or washes his hands. I know his BM has a lot to do with it but I have no contact with her.