Taking a step back...About 1.5 years prior to me and my husband meeting (his age 19), he decided to break-up with his girlfriend. But before he got up the courage, she told him that she was pregnant. So he did the logical thing and married her (I commend the "doing the right thing", but you don't marry someone you don't love...period. It always ends up to be a disaster). Guess what? It ended in a disaster.