I have been married for over 4 years to three step children's father. The step son and I have absolutely no issues, he is so nice, so polite....The two step daughters are the issue, no matter how hard I have tried to be nice to them, they treat me as if I was dirt. This is just one example over the past four years: The youngest is getting married in September, and this past week we travelled from Georgia to Virginia to attend a "cocktail party".