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Sparklelady's picture

Follow up from previous blogs on SS16 now estranged:

DH received a text from estranged SD18 "Hey dad! Me and SS16 want to take you out for Father's Day dinner on Monday!"

He said, "That's not right. You should have been invited Sparklelady. I'm not sure what to do."

I told him, I honestly don't really care. They want to make this about me, but you could be married to any woman who insisted on rules and they'd behave the same.

He said, "There are things that need to be said. I'll go, and then I can say these things to both of them. Then if it doesn't go anywhere, I can just leave."

Pretty sure it's not going to go how he wants. But I'm really proud he wants to tell them off!

(And my BS15 already gave him his Father's Day gift, and I'm taking DH go karting Sunday with friends. We'll have a lovely Father's Day despite his stupid kids.)

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hereiam's picture

It wouldn't bother me, either, it's Father's Day. I would faint if SD actually did anything for DH on Father's Day but that is beside the point.

kathc's picture

I actually don't see anything wrong with a kid wanting to see their dad alone for father's day. BUT I don't know your history with them. Honestly, even if they're shits? THey're wnting to see him on Father's Day which is more than a lot of guys get. I'd encourage him to go and have a talk wth them about how he'd like to have them in his life but htey need to include and respect you as his wife.

Sparklelady's picture

Oh, sorry ladies! Most of you misunderstand. This isn't about me, it's about DH and his kids. All related to earlier blogs. SS16 drama, and nearly 2 years ago SD did the same. So no worries about me/being left out!