Hello, new here. Having an issue with soon to be wife's kids. they are grown mind you. And haven't really been rude to me, however I did take offense to something said at breakfast, but held my tongue. Anyway, they are the ones that are on vacation NOT me. (and this is my first time meeting them). I work for a living, their mother is on disability and a fixed income, Anyway; I feel like a left over, a third wheel and least important. During their visit there have been a number of issues for me mostly. For instance, I was to meet them at the beach to tour the fort.