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BM refusing to sign agreement

Soon-to-be-Step-Mommy's picture

Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 06/02/2011 - 8:31am

After 7 months of draft after draft of a revised agreement, BM is now refusing to sign. She insists on new changes and DH is not having it. He told his lawyer he is not changing it again and he wants to go before the judge. I am so pissed off. Now we wait god knows how long to go to trial and who knows what the outcome will be!!! If he goes through with this and puts thousands more dollars we don't have into it and only gets joint custody I might just flip. We are already almost $6000 into this shit and it's gotten us no where! I just really hate the thought of having to deal with BM and her antics for at least another 10 years. What a freakin nightmare. I told him last night he can kiss his idea of me getting pregnant goodbye until this is resolved. I refuse to be stressed out over this custody crap while pregnant let alone the fact that we don't even know how to prepare for a future as a family until this is over with. Nothing but trouble I tell you. I wish BM would just go jump off a bridge. Enough DRAMA already!!!! Sad

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Submitted by VioletsareBlue on Thu, 06/02/2011 - 8:44am

It is probably the only real control that she has so she is going to control him for as long as she can. I'm sorry this is happening. Take a deep breath!

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Submitted by newmom01 on Thu, 06/02/2011 - 8:58am

Yep BM tried to threaten us with court !!!! HA HA we still have not gotten anything from any lawyer and the kids have returned to OUR home...I guess she had something to do last weekend!! But anyway all that CPS stuff, she lied about that too she did not report us, mabey because there was nothin to report! My DH was almost at the point of saying mabey when they get older they will want to come around on thier own Biggrin meaning if she wanted to keep the little buggers, then fine ....nobody is ringin your phone off the hook pleadin with you to ...please, please let me see the kids please....yeah right! so she got her act together and sent them back just like I knew she would ...good doggy Blum 3 Then when they did come DH got a little sad/upset because all ss's wanted to do was run outside and play with the neighbors kids and NOT spend time with him...this is no surprise for the last year almost ss's made friends with all the little boys in the neighborhood and likes to go play with them when the come over on the weekends day and night!! They never want to come in the house to spend time with thier dad and when DH makes them they just sit on the sofa and pout till they go back outside..Then the oldest says right before he goes home "This is not the weekend I thought it would be" DH says why? he says "Because you didnt get me anything and we didnt go anywhere" BM only kept them away about 3 weeks!! But DH still went to weekend baseball games and called them.....He wanted DH to feel bad about not seeing him, and thought he would get spoiled when he came back over! Are you serious?