this is not about steps of any kind, but my ex sister inlaw, she has pushed and pushed and pushed, pushed to the point my brother made a bad decision went out drinking and got arrested for drunk driving...yes shame on him for making a poor decision..shame on my mom for leaving him in a bad mindset under poor circumstances.

but I HATE my ex sister in law. and want nothing to do with my neice who is 3. she has never let my nieic have much of anything to do with my side of the family. my mom asked for her momory card after the short visit and burned all pictures in both camera's that were taken of my neice onto a cd so we could have some pictures, and low and behold, ex sister in law wasn't happy with ALL HER pictures being burned to a cd and yelled at mom after leaving that she invaded her privacy.....REALLY????

I hesitated but took my husband and daughter to go visit my neice while they were in town had little to say to both of them, and just couldn't bring myself to hold my neice like i wanted to because i KNEW this was going to happen and i just can't get attached to her. I don't feel i can have ne thing more to do with this extremely toxic woman and of course it's a package deal, with my poor neice who is the one suffering in the long run, goes her with her mom....i just want to :sick: to even think of her name (sil)she is vindictive, controling, toxic, and no one is as good as she is.

my brother has supervised visitation due to war struggles, but she wont even let my family keep her without her around or have ne thing to do with her if she's not there to supervise

I CANNOT STAND THIS WOMAN and if my brother choses to stay with her, or continue his decisions with her, i CAN'T give him my blessing with that choice!

HAPPY FBOMB NEW YEAR!!!!!!