............With the yearly BS. Ok, BM left 2 years ago, moved to another state, and, in those last 2 years has seen the kids a grand total of 5 times. (once in the last year) well, SD10 has started in with her disrespect, mouth, and disrespectful attitide. (the last three weeks have been great, DH and I thought she was over it, guess we were wrong) we went through this shit last year. I am sick of SD trying to take it out on me, and DH told SD10 last night that that the attitude needed to STOP. SD10 is pissed at her mother (frankly can't say I blame her) and when DH and I try talking to SD about it, she gets shitty and screams "I don't want to talk about it" then storms off. We have tried counceling, but that was cut short because the "councelor" told SD10 to "use BM being gone as an excuse for acting out, and to play the mommy card as often as she could" After the councelor told DH this, he flipped out. (DH has 100% custody, and BM has made no attempt to call since thanksgiving, no birthday cards or christmas cards either, basically, this woman wants to "parent" when she wants to make an impression on someone and still calls herself a "good mother" when BM WAS here, she stole, lied to the kids, made exborant promises that she had no intention of keeping ect.) I am trying to keep my head about all this, but there is only so much BS I can take.