Ok, so DH had to go to court in Jan because the LCM posted his findings, but BM didn't agree on them (Gee, no shock there) so, we were continued, and continued, and lo and behold, continued yet again. What I find funny is the fact that BM goes on about how she wants MORE visitation and MORE phone calls with the kids, yet can't even be so much as BOTHERED ot pick up the damn phone since CHRISTMAS! THats right Ladies and Gents, CHRISTMAS! DH and I picked the kids up after the holiday, and tomorrow will be 12 count em 12 weeks since we have heard a peep out of BM. No attempts to call, no letters no cards, not even so much as a card on valentines day to what she calls *HER* children. I have phone record PROVING that she has not tried to call. And she has to balls to try and tell us that she *cares* and is a *good mother* PLE-ASE!
No, listen you selfish, ignorant, fat, lazy piece of trash. GOOD MOTHERS actually GIVE A DAMN! GOOD MOTHERS actually TRY and have what is called a RELATIONSHIP with their children. GOOD MOTHERS CALL their children (And dont you DARE try and use your standard excuse of "but I'm deaf" as a reason NOT to call, I KNOW you call people through TTY relay) GOOD MOTHERS do NOT show up when ever the hell they "feel like it". I hate to tell you, but I for all intensive purposes I AM the kids "mother" see, I actually GIVE A DAMN. I actually TAKE CARE OF THEM and make sure they are bathed. I actually PAY ATTENTION TO THEM and DO THINGS WITH THEM instead of leaving them with a sitter ALL the time. or shutting them in their bedroom. I actually CARE ABOUT THEIR WELL BEING. I actually COOK MEALS for them. I actually DICIPLINE them. I actually LISTEN to them. I actually (I find this HILLAROUS BTW) am the one TEACHING YOUR YOUNGEST ASL SO SHE CAN TALK TO YOU! (Which should have been YOUR FUCKING JOB! But DH and I are doing it)I could step aside and let DH do EVERYTHING like he did when you WERE here, but I cannot do that. See, I am a HUMAN BEING, and seeing as how these kids have already been through disapointment after disapointment from you, I cannot IGNORE them like you do. IF I happen to be gone over a weekend, I CALL the kids just to talk to them. YOU can't even be bothered to do THAT much. Even when it was ORDERED that you call, you NEVER DID. And now you have the balls to want MORE visitation? I think I am just going to stand back and watch you continue to screw up, continue to document, every. little. thing. and bide my time. I already find it funny that the oldest wants NOTHING to do with you, she got tired of your empty promises, lies, and half assed "parenting"