I have a step daughter that is 7 years old and 4 boys that are mine. I would take these 4 boys over one girl any day! My husband and his ex have shared custody so we have her for 2 weeks and her mom has her for two weeks. SD lives in this fantasy land that both parents provided and now that im in the picture I have put reality into perspective for dad. Its one thing to do things with your children but going to theme parks constantly, zoo, build a bear, mall, chucky cheese etc. needless to say its rediculous.