My husband and I have been together for over 5 years. He told me when we got married that he may have a son and that the BM had taken off when he was born. 

     About three months ago and we got a call from his ex saying that his son is 10 years old and that he wanted a relationship with him. Everyday since he has been texting and talking to his Ex they have been growing closer and closer and my husband even tells her that he loves her.